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Being the Best "Dressed" Man this Summer's Wedding Season - A sure-fire way to look better than the groom, and hook up with a Bridesmaid


Being the Best "Dressed" Man this Summer's Wedding Season - A sure-fire way to look better than the groom, and hook up with a Bridesmaid

Some dudes hate getting dressed up. The rest of classier male population take the opportunity to dress up as an opportunity to turn heads.

This year's wedding season (which started about a month ago...sorry for the tardy blog post), gives us the chance to show out. Bust out our fav suit, wear that tie you got for Christmas (or Hanukkah), and shoes you never get to wear.  You've heard the rule, "don't look better than the groom", I say f#*k that noise. Follow my guide to being the best dressed man at the wedding (or 8 weddings) you were invited to this summer. You will be the highlight of the mass amount of Facebook and Instagram pictures taken that night. #weddingpics

#1 - Put that solid dark suit away

Jacket -John Varvatos Tie/Pocket Square -The Tie Bar Shirt -Charles Tyrwhitt Pants - H&M Shoes - Salvatore Ferragamo Lapel Pin -Suited Man

Break the 2010 mold, and go 1970's. No one died, you're not a funeral, keep the dark suit in the closet. A wedding is a time of celebration, so celebrate your sense of style in a fun pattern, or atypical pastel color blazer. One rule however - make sure it is tailored and fits your correctly. If not, you have the chance of looking like Bill Nye the Science Guy. Also, if you are going with an eye popping jacket, bring yourself back to reality with a solid shirt and matching tie. Although you want attention, you don't want the bride to kick you out. 

#2 - Spread that collar and put some hardware on your wrist


Okay, maybe you simply cannot go out and get a new suit, I get it. You are limited to the navy one you bought 5 years ago for graduation. So spice up your life (Spice Girl reference FTW) with a sharp color, sharp pattern, and sharp edges on your shirt. Charles Tyrwhitt has a plethora of options of various fits, spread collar, patterned shirts that are simply made for the wedding season. The "Spread Collar" shirt - which is exactly as the name suggests; a collar that is spread out wide - accentuates your manly neck, adds class to your look, and gives you the ability to rock a phat a$$ tie knot. Then you must close your shirt details with your fav cuff links. My personal rule, french cuff or GTFO...#justsayin

#3 - No "Show" Sock Saturdays

Shoes - Salvatore Ferragamo Pants - H&M Socks - Sperry TopSider "No-Show"

Don't get me wrong, I am a fan of the sock. The more outlandish, the better. However, for the summer wedding season, I am all about no show sock Saturday! It is a fun way to remove a layer of heat inducing fabric, while maintaining a clean sleek look to your wedding suit. I know, you are saying, "no way! Those shoes will spell like a dead animal after a night of dancing and walking around with no socks on." Well, people smarter than us have come up with a cleaver "no-show" sock. It gives the appearance of no sock, however provides that thin layer of sweat protection from your suede loafers. My go-to is the Sperry TopSider "No-Show" seen in the above photo. 

#4 - These Shoes were made for dancin'

Top Left - Sebago Docksides Top Right - Magnanni Loafers Bottom Left - Paul Parkman Wingtips Bottom Right - Cole Haan Saddle

With all the bumping and grinding that is probably going to happen at this wedding, your feet need to be well taken care of. This means, comfortability paired with great style. Depending on your style, and suit choice, various choices of fun, great feeling shoes are available to you. The standard boat shoe with a flair of color by Sebago is a great choice for an outdoor wedding, paired with a khaki or tan suit. For a black-tie affair, the white and black two-tone wingtip is a sure way to get some attention, and twerk your way to the middle of the conga line! For your mis-match suit, or stylish navy three-piece with fun shirt combo, hit up the brown loafer or always ill-matic grey suede saddle shoe with colored rubber sole! The rubber sole in the Cole Haan saddle shoe will allow you to not only teach everyone how to dougie, but then go out for post wedding drinks, and pole grind at the local watering hole. Your feet will thank you!!

Bottom line is to have the best time possible at the weddings you have been so kindly invited to. The wedding party/their parents have paid GOOD money for you to be there, eat there, drink there, and dance there. So be sure to have a blast, take lots of pics, and hit on as many old ladies as possible. Remember to use #thefashionableman so we can all see your style! 


Have fun, and look good doing it!!


The Classic Style Piece...The Mismatched Suit


The Classic Style Piece...The Mismatched Suit

YOLO fashionable men of the world. I'm sure you're wondering a couple things lately:

#1 When is Cory putting up a new post?
#2 What is the illest style combo I can put together?

Well my fashion bros, I am here to give you the keys to the magic kingdom of men's style...

The Mismatched Suit, in my humble opinion (IMHO), is one of the most sexy, artistic, elegant, sleekest combinations of clothing a man can put together! Now, again IMHO, I am a Grey and Navy Blue mismatch suit guy. However, to each their own; the combination of grey and red, purple and white, green and black are equally as fun, and look equally as good*

Jacket and Trousers -


, Shoes and Belt -


, Socks -

Happy Socks

, Shirt -


*caveat - you can look like a Christmas tree, or a leprechaun if you decide to get too bold. But if you would rather look like a halloween character instead of a GQ cover model, do you brother! I also do not recommend black and navy blue, unless you enjoy looking like a bruise, again my opinion.

Jacket/Sweater/Tie -


,  Pants -


,  Shirt -

Charles Tyrwhitt,

Shoes/Belt -


,  Glasses -

Maui Jim

You don'd wear two bold colors on top of each other when you are not wearing a suit (unless you are Johnny Cash in all black or Jay Leno in all denim...LOL), so why should you do it when you DO wear a suit? I am not saying, every time for every occasion you need to mismatch, however if you only have a select amount of suits to choose from every morning, then this effectively doubles your options. You only have a Black and a Grey suit? Now you have 4 outfit options to choose!

  1. Black Pants/Black Jacket
  2. Black Pants/Grey Jacket
  3. Grey Pants/Grey Jacket
  4. Grey Pants/Black Jacket

Now that you have doubled your wardrobe, and I've just blown your mind, you have figure out what shoes to put on (that are not the 1994 edition black pleather-no-longer-has-a-sole joints. Grab your nuts, fork over some cash, and buy a nice pair of leather shoes...we will get to this buy decision on another fashionable man blog post. But for now, just don't wear your hideous church shoes your aunt bought you 13 Easters ago), and what shirt will go with. I also enjoy throwing in a pocket square that matches or accents your shirt. It throws a dash of color into the mix, and spices up the outfit with a finishing touch (and don't get me start with all the funkadelic accessories to start rocking...yet another fashionable man blog post for that too! Just remember, #RealMenAccessorize...we'll come back to that soon)!

Not only is this combo good for a dinner date, or evening out with your boo, but work professional, brunch, wine's good for it all! Go all pastel with it at a horse race in the summer like I did below, or rock some darker tones to a winter holiday meal like I did above.

Jacket/Pants -


, Bow Tie -


, Lapel Pin -

The Crimson Poppy

, Shirt -


The Mismatch Suit is simple and fun, and it looks DAMN good. Go crazy, go bold, go H.A.M. Enjoy your week fashionable men. Until next time...Have fun, and look good doing it!


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Welcome to the BLOG game!!

Bienvenidos to all my fellow fashionistas out there!

This is my first blog, call me DJ Drama cause WE IN THIS BITCH! I will start with the intro to me, my reasons for being here, and what you can expect in the coming posts.

I think fashion is in the eye of the beholder! Some bros like snap-back flat bills, zip-up hoodies, and skinny jeans. Some bros like bow ties, pocket squares, and suede loafers. I am the type of braj that likes a combo of all. Very much into the Justin Timberlake 'Suit & Tie' scene,

 but have been known to cut a rug in some Tims, light wash jeans with a thermal, ya dig!

My name is Cory, and I live in the DC Metropolitan area. I am your standard 9-5 business man, have a wife and kid, and love men's fashion, rap music, dancing, all sports, and having a good time with anyone that wants to hang with! I am that dude in the office the other men say shit to about what I wear, and all the ladies compliment. Therefore, I tell the guys, "Your wife wishes you dress like I do", and that usually shuts them up!
My interest (some would call it a passion) for men's wear is what landed me here; to talk to you guys, and spread some illmatic ideas and fun.

I think THE FASHIONABLE MAN is someone that represents their own style, interprets fashion as they see it, and isn't afraid to do something out of the ordinary!
With this foray into the blogosphere, I aim to inspire readers on attire ideas, what clothing to put together, accessorize as they want (because IMHO #realmenaccessorize), and talk about what inspires me. You can expect blog posts about my #ootd (outfit of the day), some thoughts behind that outfit, men's fashion ideas that inspire me and my thoughts on them, combination ideas, accessory ideas, etc.

With that, I hope you all enjoy the blog. Please leave feedback and comments - good or bad.

You can also follow me on instagram @the_fashionable_man.

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